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The Love Potion You Made Tastes Terrible, How Will You Drink It?

Loving someone who doesn’t love you back is a profoundly challenging and emotionally complex experience. It involves having solid romantic feelings and affection for someone who does not share the same level of sentiment.

This unrequited love can lead to a range of emotions and struggles that can be difficult to navigate. Unrequited love is a challenging experience, but it doesn’t define your worth or potential for future happiness.
It’s okay to acknowledge your feelings and work through them at your own pace. Ultimately, your well-being and emotional health should take precedence as you navigate the complexities of loving someone who doesn’t share the same feelings.

Loving someone who doesn’t reciprocate your feelings can create a rollercoaster of emotions. You might experience moments of hope and happiness when you interpret their actions as signs of affection.
Expressing your feelings to someone who doesn’t feel the same way can leave you exposed and vulnerable.

Unrequited love can lead to self-doubt and questioning your self-worth.
Loving someone who doesn’t love you can be all-consuming and make it challenging to focus on other aspects of your life.
The lack of reciprocity can leave you with questions about the relationship and the other person’s feelings.
You might hold onto hope that their feelings will change or that the situation will somehow shift in your favor. We feed ourselves hope according to what we want. We don't realize that this is not in our favor. And most of the time, It will never be. 

Your emotional investment in unrequited love might cause you to neglect self-care and your well-being. You might prioritize their needs and emotions over your own. Trust me, I've been there.
Coping with unrequited love requires self-compassion and patience. It’s essential to acknowledge your feelings while also focusing on your well-being. Love yourself enough to leave the situations where you're not appreciated. That applies to people too. 

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  1. Anonymous18 September 2023 at 18:43

    Filza where did you disappear I have been worried sick trying to reach you.

    -A

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